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If your boyfriend or husband is not interested in you any more and hasn't still the courage to tell it openly, it's just from some negative changes in his usual behaviour toward you that you can realize it.

1) He has become colder, especially, in talking with you, at the telephone or personally with a tired, flat and formal voice.
When he listens to you about your problems he shows scarce patience, he interrupts you frequently and he makes scarce efforts to find a solution or to give advice, except for superficial sentences, like "you must be patient", "what can I do? I don't know!..." and so on.

On the other hand, he doesn't talk with you anymore of his own problems and feelings (very important thing to do in a couple) because he doesn't consider it important and helpful anymore.

In a nutshell, he tends to communicate with you only for "service reasons", like "When is dinner ready?", "The gas bill has come!", "I'm tired, I don't want to go out, this evening...", "Have you bought the fruit?".
Also these sentences are necessary during your daily life, but hearing only this from him mustn't be very romantic or exciting for you!...

2) He doesn't watch you anymore in your eyes as before. The eyes of two lovers are the mirrors at which each one loves to look to find their reciprocal feelings, so, if he avoids your eyes, this means fears you discover into his eyes all his indifference.

3) He doesn't remember anymore your anniversary, or birthday, for example.
His memory is more focused on other things, like another partner and, surely, he perfectly remembers the "other woman's" birthday.
The justification he gives that his thoughts are too taken by the work, by the familiar issues, by his old mom so sick and so on, are weak reasons because, most likely, his problems are not worsened from the happy moments in which he loved you....
Moreover, if a persons forgets just the pleasant days of your life, what does it remains in his memory?

4) He finds more and more reasons for not making sex with you or, if he tries, he misses more and more frequently the "target", justifying himself with the stress due to work, or the family budget to manage, for example.

Sex is a good measure of the passion he has for you because we men are rather sensible to all changes in the motivations allowing us to make sex.
For example, when just you must make more and more frequently the first step and he doesn't make anymore his "advances" and "proposals" to you as before, about what to do

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