by Author Name Withheld 81

Created on: March 20, 2007   Last Updated: May 09, 2007

It's simple...leave him wanting more.

The key to the first date is to be charming and witty and make him feel good just for being around you - every human being gravitates to a person who has this effect on them. Smile and laugh as much as you can but don't be fake, if he associates you with being happy and having a good time he will want to see you again.

Ask lots of questions about him, it will make him feel like you are really interested in him and will feed his ego. He will be as nervous as you are and will not even notice til the end of the date that he knows little about you. Herein lies part of the attraction of the second date, the first date should wet his appetite.

Don't be too physical. Flirtatious, light touches are fine and add to the sense of what may be in store but if you go further than a kiss goodnight it takes away from the mystery. You are less likely to get a second date if you sleep with him on the first and even if you do, question what his motives are.

The most important thing to remember is to be as natural as possible but not give too much away. Leave him wondering and wanting more and a second date is guaranteed.

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