Letting go of your fears, trusting and having faith are your best friends, but fearing avoiding, resisting, and desperately holding on are your very worst enemies. Fears create a desperation in that is unattractive and offensive. When we fear losing someone or that person cheating on us we start to get clingy, obsessive and controlling this in the long run will push the person away. So in effect the very thing you were trying to resist you become your own destroyer.

It's very simple to avoid the things you fear. Just let go, trust and be prepared. Find happiness in yourself create things in your life that separate you from those thoughts like an escapism and know whatever happens fear has no hold on you if you do not let it.
So if you prepared for anything and just trust and hope in God and have faith in the person you say you love then there will no vacancies for fear in your heart. If after all that the person is not trustworthy then you will have the strength and confidence to move on as you are no longer trapped in the mental prison of thinking if they cheat on you or leave you then you will not survive YOU WILL SURVIVE, SO WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO FEAR

Once trust has been established, you've overcome a enormous hurdle in your relationship, and you should do everything in your power to maintain it in your relationship.

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