Three very short tips regarding SEX, MONEY, and MEDIA in marriages today.

I was headed down that road and was pointed in the right direction with these 3 tips. If you are serious about not allowing divorce as a part of your life, then follow this path and reap the rewards.

First, find 'His Needs, Her Needs' by William F Harley Jr. Take this book and read it together with your soon to be spouse, or spouse of ? years. Apply these principles and you will see an effective way build a long lasting relationship. More on this book and other Marriage Building principles can be found at http://www.marriagebuilders.co m/

Second, visit http://www.daveramsey.com/ and take this man's advice to heart and it will change your life for the better.
Beans and rice, may not be nice, but for the short time. Start save now, Dave Ramsey show how, short while have many dime. Corny, but true.

Third, and this will be the most difficult to prove. But, I am living proof and know others as well. As much as possible, and if you can go all the way, don't watch TV. Disconnect from it, cancel service, monitor viewing very strictly. Truth be told, there is so much garbage and negativity flushing your brain and washing it with unrealistic values of a society that is being created by Media Moguls just for their profit
Sitcoms and other overrated shows demoralize family values and encourage illicit affairs, drug abuse, and violence. With all the profanity being used in them as well, it's no surprise children show the level of disrespect to adults that they do.

Since I turned off my service, we don't eat out as much, we eat at the table as a family. There is no commercial to entice us to buy fast foods. We communicate more and get to know each other keeping our relationships open with nothing to hide. And lastly, the money we don't spend paying for such a service we use for family events that allow us to build each other up. Playing card and board games, with just our family, or other families too.
It's all up to you if you want to make the change. I did. I have 3 beautiful children that love and respect my wife and I, and are well respected and admired by their peers as well as others in the community.

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