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Dancing is the choreography of love. Traditionally, only those intending to be married would dance at public gatherings. Much like in the story of Cinderella, think of royalty in history, how there was always someone hoping to find a handsome prince or beautiful princess through a grand ball. Dancing can be very intimate, flirtatious, fun, and elegant. Each dance there is suits an occasion and era or culture. Some dancing can even be linked with spirituality. But in terms of dating, the way a person dances with another can determine the possibility of a relationship.

From personal experience, I can say that while I love to dance, my husband hates it. He is generally not enthusiastic about it, and seems to have two left feet. But when we were on our first date, it was at our high school's homecoming dance, and boy did he sure impress me! I would not have even known that he didn't like to dance, because he was willing to dance every time I asked. At that time, we were only each other's date as friends, but because of how much fun we had that night it turned into something more. To me, I find dancing really romantic and an expression of happiness, and I am always eager to share both of those feelings with him or my loved ones through dancing to favorite tunes. Something about music is just so uplifting to me, and it is liberating to be able to move around how I feel.

I consider the gift of dance as a rugged, classy, and suave characteristic in a man, a total turn-on. If a man won't dance (or doesn't dance very well and doesn't try to hide that fact or do his best to still have a nice time attempting for the sake of his woman) it definitely means that the date will turn sour. In that small gesture, you will see a person's true character. And if the other person likes what he/she sees in your dancing, you will most likely end up with at least a one-night fling or a call-back date.

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