by David Braybrooke

Created on: March 17, 2007   Last Updated: September 16, 2010

It is a fact of life that some guys are more attractive to girls than others. This is one reason why stars like Brad Pitt, George Clooney and Tom Cruise have such wide appeal and massive fan bases.  In order to explain a few of the finer points about attractiveness it may help to focus on examples such as the above names and attempt to ascertain what qualities they possess.

First and foremost, guys who can attract girls without saying a word seem to exude an unshakable confidence in who they are as people.  They like and affirm themselves and tend to emanate a certain upbeat energy that attracts females to them.  Positive body language and how you conduct yourself can be a source of great appeal for others.  If you hold yourself well and move with self-confidence and conviction then you are more likely to find that other people respond well to you.

In more recent times, scientists have researched and discovered connections between our body chemistries and levels of attractiveness to the opposite sex.  So, men who are seen as very attractive may have a slight advantage in being genetically structured in a more appealing way.  Men, such as the Hollywood stars listed above, usually possess healthy physiques in prime condition and take pride in their appearance and present as well-groomed.  A sense of personal style and flair as well as a refined and intelligent manner can be signals that indicate to the observant female that a man has alot going in his favor on a personal level.  Attention to your appearance always tends to be a big point of attraction.

It should also be mentioned that many girls find guys more attractive if they show sensitivity and other endearing qualities that appeal to the feminine psyche.  Not a word need be uttered in some circumstances yet many females are able to detect whether or not a man possesses these above-mentioned character traits through his everyday actions and non-verbal cues.

To conclude, some guys just seem to have all the luck.  It is generally agreed upon that some people have more of that indefinable X-factor than others and this could be partly attributable to just dumb luck.  You either have 'it' or you don't, yet if you like and treat yourself well as a person this may indicate that you are likely to treat others the same way and therefore your level of attractiveness is bound to soar!

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