by Ashley Sanders

Created on: February 21, 2011   Last Updated: April 15, 2011

Whether you’re still in the honeymoon period of a relationship or you’ve been married for years, keeping a regular date night is important for developing and keeping the spark alive. Choose a night that will be free from distractions and put some effort in to make it a special occasion every time. All it takes is a little imagination, a bit of time, and a loving attitude to create the right atmosphere for a night of passion.

Here are a few ideas to get you started, but at the end of the day, you’re the expert on what your partner would enjoy, so don’t forget to add that personal touch.

Wining and dining

Pick a restaurant renowned for its quality service as this can set the tone for the night straight away. Tell your partner to dress up and make the evening a nice surprise. Throughout the evening continue to whisper sweet nothings in their ear – tell them how you feel and how stunning they look tonight. At some point throughout the evening get up and ask your partner to dance, even if there is no dance floor.

If an expensive restaurant does not fit in with your style or budget then choose an equally as fun, cheaper option. For example, simply set up a table with lit candles, a bottle of wine and a cheese platter. If the weather is appropriate, do this outside and after the meal, lay on the ground gazing at the stars, holding your loved one close. If it’s cold outside, set this up in your lounge and choose a movie to match the mood. You could even finish off the night with a candle-lit bubble bath.

It’s thoughtful, personal touches to simple, everyday activities that can really make the difference, and also shows your partner the effort you’re willing to go to for them.

Dancing and singing

Whether or not you or your partner are interested in singing or dancing, you can still make it a fun night. Do something you never normally would, even if you require some liquid courage, and you’ll not only create memories with your partner but by putting yourself out of your comfort zone you will be rewarded in so many different ways.

Get up there in front of a crowd of strangers and make a fool of yourself at Karaoke. Do a duet and be as terrible as each other, but laugh about it afterward. If one of you is gifted with some singing talent then show it off and sing a love song to your partner.

Take your partner dancing – either go somewhere you know you’ll both enjoy (e.g. a concert) or do the opposite and

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