by Dea Szekely

Created on: February 13, 2011

I don’t wish to ruin things for certain women, but if they are looking for Prince Charming, then they might get really disappointed in life. There are no perfect people and so there is no perfect man either. Still this doesn’t mean that you won’t find men that are really close to what you consider perfect. Nonetheless they will have some faults as well.

Even as little girls women are dreaming of the man that will find them and that will make their loves wonderful and they will live happily ever after. In reality things don’t always work like this. Just as in any other case there is need for compromise.

Even more, according to my opinion it isn’t a very good idea to create a vision of the perfect man and don’t give a chance to those who aren’t like the vision that you have created, because you might be missing on things that you never knew you never knew.

Some women are dreaming about meeting a handsome young doctor who will be able to heal their heart and their aren’t willing to give a chance to the engineer sitting right next to them because he doesn’t fit in the pattern that they have created. Big mistake!

One of the biggest gifts of life is that you have the opportunity to meet many people and the more people you know the wider your horizons will be and in the end you will be able to decide what you are looking for in a man. When you get to this point most probably you will meet another person and then something will be added to the list or something will be removed.

Still sometimes the list doesn’t matter. You might meet a man that you simply click with and, believe me, you will never think about that list again. For this you must be open minded and you shouldn’t let the opportunities pass.

Another thing that every woman should realize is that most probably no man of their dreams will find them just by sitting at home and waiting for him. Things don’t really work that way. There is need to go out in the world and seize every opportunity to meet people and to try something new.

Also women should have the self confidence needed to get themselves noticed, while being themselves and not turning into someone else.

I think that the conclusion of my article might be that only in movies is there a Prince Charming and that women have to make compromises regarding this aspect of life, but these compromises shouldn’t be too big, because then the entire thing might turn out wrong.

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