by Claire Mable

Created on: February 12, 2011

If you going through the problem of suspecting your boyfriend is gay your not alone! Not all gay men are submissive as they can be dominate and act like hes straight.

here are some signs refering to the dominate version of the gay man or a gay man in the closet that hides that he is submissive.

* starts hanging out with guy friend all the time and doesnt hang out with other friends as often or none at all.( now guys straight guys can do this just the same but also your gut instinct will tell you what is really happening)

*your guy friends start saying that your boyfriend is hitting on them and flirting( now some people can be just mean and try to stur up trouble but when if your with them long enough in the relationship and this happens in other accurances with many different guy friends then watch out this could be a sure sign*

*invites you to go do something with them and then ditches you to hang out with the guy friend( now some guys can be players and really could be cheating on you but (when its just with the one guy) and you have seen them driving together or get invited along to go with them somewhere and you have to sit in the back seat its time to start opening your eyes)

*now this may sound strange but if the guys happen to have live together or your boyfriend moves in with the guy this as well will be a strange sign because a lot of straight men ive seen yes they have roomies but they also hang out with various other friends as well. a bigger portion of guy friends and even girls in the mix is a lot less suspicious than just the one guy friend that your boyfriend seems to do everything together. what i noticed in my experience is that they had a lot of cats.

*Only Invites you out to go meet his family or family events but not on dates. ( this makes it seem as if they are only inviting you to see his family so they wont suspect hes gay and when they dont take you out on dates it seems as if he doesnt care what a stranger would think and really doesnt have a great deal of interest in you)

*Seems as if he only wants to have anal sex with you or makes comments about your private area in an embarassing way and even talks about other womens private areas as if their nasty.  Or make comments that he likes women to stick their finger in his butt and when you ask if he wants that from you he gets all embarassed meaning he has issues with certain sexual things he likes as if their embarassing. ( yes straight men do like this sort

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