by Joshua Nyamache

Created on: February 07, 2011

Is it really worthy to please a man? Mmm….let me ask you, what made some men ask you for a date? When a man asks you for a date there must be a certain aura in you that attracted him. He was so obsessed by it and wanted to know you better.

By the way, did he tell you why he was attracted to you? If not, did you dare ask him why he decided it’s you out of all the women out there? Did he give you a sincere answer? If he didn’t brush aside your question and he just answered it sincerely, then you have him.  He told you the secret of how to please him.

What things do your boyfriend wished you knew so as to please him? Men are not the same; each has his own ways of doing things, likes and dislikes just differ from one man to another. So get to know your man better. How do you know him?

Simply spend some time with him and you’ll come to notice what he likes and what he doesn’t like. You’ll discover some behavior in him to aid you in figuring out how to get along with him. So here is a list of things to help you in pleasing your man:

1.) Have an Understanding: Most women have failed to get along with their men simply because they have failed to understand them. If you understand your man and he also understands you, then that definitely leads you to pleasing him.

There are things that you can’t change about him and this is where you should be an understanding woman. For instance, if he likes to hang out with friends just understand that your man likes to spend time with his friends. However, I am not saying that you should tolerate some sort of unacceptable behaviors.

2.) Always Communicate Effectively: The surest way to kill any relationship is failing to communicate. To keep your relationship lively, you have to communicate with your man freely. Feel free to tell him what you are up. Use humor to ease difficult talks (topics) with him.

You should give a satisfactory answer to whatever he needs to know. Use pleasant words in addressing him such as my sweet heart, darling etc.

3.) Appreciating Him: Each man is happy if he knows that he is being appreciated by his missus. So, learn to appreciate your man and he will be pleased in his heart for having you as his woman.

There is nothing that crushes the spirit of a man if his woman doesn’t appreciate him and keeps on nagging him. There are many ways you can appreciate your man such as sending him surprise messages while he is away or telling him how much caring he is…

4.) Cheerful: Frankly, no man will want to spend his time with a woman who is not cheerful. Please your man by being cheerful wherever you’re together. When he is having difficult times you should cheer him up. Encourage him and he will surely learn that he has a wonderful woman in his life.

5.) Honest: Don’t be vague with any matter. Being honesty with various issues will please a man. Remember that honesty is one factor that strengthens a relationship.

6.) Love and Affection: A woman who shows affection to his man pleases him. Although not all men like to cuddle in public, but men generally like to cuddle. Why not do this with your man and see how pleased he will? However, don’t go overboard you'll scare him. A loving woman is what makes a man happy.

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