by Alice Xavier

Created on: January 30, 2011

Winning a girl's affections is not an easy task. It takes patience, mutual attraction and an ounce of charm. Nobody can force someone fall in love with them, but there are some things you can do to aid the process along. You must try to let it happen naturally and be careful to not be too pushy.

One of the things you can do is be gentlemanly, believe it or not, women still like to be wined and dined now and again, by the perfect gentleman. Women are essentially romantic beings and they like it when a man opens doors for them or pulls out their chair at a restaurant. Being well mannered and polite is a trait that most women admire.

In relationships, women are much more emotionally involved than men are; by striking up meaningful and interesting conversation, you will show her that you have an intelligent, articulate nature and that you can connect to her on an emotional level. Respect is also a quality women like to find in a potential partner, respect her by listening to what she has to say and show interest in her views and opinions. In turn, share your own interests, aspirations, hobbies, and plans; by discussing these with her, she will feel like she is part of you’re your future. Open up to her, perhaps tell her something not many people know about you, and be generous with your time.

Another thing that women find very attractive in a man is a sense of humour. You don’t have to be a comedian in order to make her laugh, just show her a fun and lighthearted side of your personality. A good sense of humour is often high among the list of traits, a woman would want to find in their ideal partner.

Women also love compliments, be sure to pay her lots of them, it will boost her confidence and make her feel loved. Make an effort to pay her attention and arrange special dates together to ensure that she knows, you care for her deeply. Women like to hear that you have missed them and that you think about them when they’re not around, this lets them know they are important to you.

Most importantly be there when she needs you, let her know she can trust and rely on you. Remember that winning girl’s affection takes time, it won’t happen overnight. Stand by her and show her that she is an important part of your life and always be patient, finding the right woman is worth the wait.

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