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Pitfalls to avoid to achieve success in your marriage

by Gary Zalben

Created on: January 04, 2011

Ideal Laws For Sustaining Loyalty in Married Life

Are there infallible ways to keep your husband or wife loyal? What are the ideal laws for sustaining loyalty in married life and achieving success in marriage. There are ideal laws for married life and understanding these laws can prevent a broken heart and shattered dreams. There is a moral plan of behavior for the husband and the wife. These plans of behavior came from the teaching of Paramahansa Yogananda a spiritual master. The average worldly person may find these rules either too lofty or difficult to follow, but these ideals are what works.


 
This is not a simple business so before you even consider getting married a little test should be carried out under favorable conditions in a relaxed atmosphere conducive to natural behavior. If the person is aware of being “tested” then trickery will be suspected and the experiment will have no value on that basis. Your prospective mate should be introduced to your social activities and your area of work to make sure he or she is in accord with all of your ideals and habits to see if it fits in with his or her temperament, principles and goals.
 
Every person attracts others based on the totality of their psychological temperament gathered as effects from past and present actions. A man who lived predominantly on the sexual plane in the past and in the present, it is almost guaranteed he will attract a female of comparable feelings and the same applies to a woman. In life we do get what we deserve. A man’s lower desires and vibrations should never be built around a woman and vice versa. If you do not find a spiritual partner, do not get married as you will not be loved, period.

There is one secret in protecting and sustaining marital life and that is the capacity to use self-control. By learning to live and love more on the spiritual plane rather than thinking and living constantly on the physical plane you will begin to connect as loving friends. You will achieve a great victory if you can keep your mate respectful, loving and inwardly loyal to you.



Plan of Moral Behavior for the Husband
The ideal husband who aspires to keep his life companion loving and loyal  
should endeavor to live by the following principles:
Never let your wife think you have trade-marked her as your possession or
     that you feel you own her.                  

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