by Cheryl Scheinin

Created on: January 03, 2011

What does it take these days to learn about relationships?  No matter what type of a relationship we have with someone; we have to look at what is being presented to us daily in our lives. The lessons that happen between people these days help us to open the “heart and soul” and experience life on many levels. If you want to call this the body, mind, spirit movement; then lets start to get a dynamic perspective of what is being brought to the surface of every encounter we have.

 We are not here to sit and dwell on what life is going to bring us from each person we love either. It’s learning about who we are as an individual and what needs to be uncovered that is hidden deep under the surface. We don’t even realize what wounds we have until the unconscious mind decides to bring the pieces of the missing puzzles together in a slow motion. Who ever said that life was going to be easy these days?

This can be on many levels of our lives when it comes to our family, friends, co-workers, and the acquaintances that truly shake our foundation. How are we ever going to know what we want to desire in life or why we are here to begin with? The people in our lives help us to heal the wounds as they start to surface the “heart and soul” of our own existence. And remember, we are never ready to handle what is about to explode in our lives until it happens. We have to handle the situation as it occurs or otherwise the experience will never help you grow spiritually.

 Sometimes this can really place us into a space of emotional and mental hurt when the incident occurs in our lives. The shock of any living experience can really put us in a place of fear and insecurity until the aftermath is over. Then the universe will help us to see another side or dimension of what was released inside the “heart and soul” itself.

 Every person that comes into our lives play a character role of “fate and destiny” calling to each encounter we have when this occurs. Can you imagine how much we mirror off each other and sometimes we don’t want to acknowledge the life experiencewhen it happens? Why? Maybe we are too self-absorbed in an area of our lives that we shouldn’t be at when the time happens? Wow, now that makes sense doesn’t it!

 The lessons of life help us to move forward and keep us balanced in the present moment. We are always thinking that the situation or the people in our lives should also be the way we want them to be and not let them help us to allow the process to happen naturally. It would be much easier to love the people unconditionally and accept them for who they are.

 Why hold yourself back from the lesson that they came in to do in this lifetime? Look at how much the both of you would grow as “human beings” and then this would help the bond of the relationship be stronger and powerful in the space that “God” wants us to live.

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