by Audrey Hart

Created on: January 02, 2011

Making it hard for someone to resist saying yes to what you want them to do seems the more appropriate definition for seduction rather than enticing someone astray from right behavior. That’s not fair. Not all things about seduction will lead to the wrong behavior. Just as anything in life seduction can be used for negative things. Seduction is powerful and anything that powerful will be used by someone in the wrong way. Playful seduction between a relationship can be healthy. A little seduction at times during worldly encounters can be positive as long as the individual knows when to stop in order to not cross the line between right and wrong. What can be used to seduce one may not work on another. Some sexual things are universal, but seduction isn’t always about sex. Seduction can lead to sex at times yes, but it isn’t sex. Seduction is something way more powerful. The more realistic question isn’t whether seduction can be taught, but when one is taught seduction.

Some qualities we possess are genetic, although most behaviors are learned. In truth, some are born charismatic, yet they aren’t born with the instinct and knowledge of how to use the charisma they were born with. This is something that over time they learn. We are all born with abilities. Depending on the environment we live and are raised in, added with the drive and enthusiasm the person posses will determine the amount of abilities utilized. Using the art of seduction to ones ability does take a certain amount of self esteem, but more than anything there is usually a need a person is trying to fulfill. A thought process and some work has been put into it. There is a payoff. Seduction is usually used to get a someone something they want. Look at a billboard, pick up a magazine or turn on a television, seduction is everywhere. The media uses it hoping you will want to purchase the product they offer.Entertainment companies use it get you to watch and keep watching. Media is how many learn to use seduction. Some learn faster than others. Some are born around others who already have mastered seduction and learn from them. Many learn when they are thrown into adulthood and go out in the world. Anyway you look at it seduction is a art that is learned and molded to fit the individual who will use it.

No individual posesses the same talents.  This is one of the many things that make our world so interesting. Every one has a special talent.  It would prove likely that some will excel in seduction more than others, but anyone can be taught.  In today‘s environment we are exposed to seduction daily.  Bringing us back to the question of it isn’t whether seduction can be taught, that’s easy, yes. The more realistic question is when is one taught seduction? The answer, it depends on the person and his/her environment.  Every one has an opinion about whether seduction is appropriate or not, but keep in mind our opinions are usually ones we have been taught.

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