by Natalie M. Wolverson

Created on: December 28, 2010   Last Updated: December 29, 2010

Storms are generally cold and noisy, which leaves no doubt about a child’s reasoning for being afraid when there is a storm in the neighbourhood or nearby. Younger children are generally more afraid or wary of storms as they don’t quite understand what is going on, however as children grow older many lose their fear of storms as that fear turns into inquisition and they start to become more interested in what is happening. As storms can be a difficult and scary time for a child, it is important that you, as a parent, try to comfort and reassure your child to show them that there is nothing to be scared of and that the storm will pass.

The most important way of comforting your child is to be there with them. Just holding and talking to a child can make them feel more at ease and comfortable, and will often take their mind away from a bad scenario. Talk about their favourite cartoon or ask about any hobbies they may have. Showing an interest can really go a long way and will keep your child feeling safe and secure.

Another great way to keep a child’s mind from wondering back to the storm outside is by telling them a story or reading from their favourite book. Children love stories and are generally great listeners. A lot of children are used to hearing a story before bed and will therefore feel much calmer and relaxed if they hear a story during a storm, because it acts as a ‘soother’. If you don’t have any books on hand then feel free to make a story up or recite a traditional story, such as ‘Red Riding Hood’ or ‘The Three Little Pigs’.

Younger children may also find the use of a pacifier to be relaxing, as well as their favourite teddy bear or blanket. If you know that your child loves to sleep with a certain bear or blanket then it is normally because the child feels safer with that object around them and should provide them with comfort during a storm.

Presuming that you haven’t lost power during the storm then you could also lie down with your child and watch their favourite cartoon or DVD. Most cartoons attract a child’s attention, either with bright colours or humorous characters so letting them settle down in front of the television may help them relax.

Children just want comfort and reassurance during a storm as their brains don’t fully understand what is going on and then aren’t sure what to expect. The best thing to remember is that they are young and want comfort; children can tell how you feel so try and be supportive rather towards your child. Your child just wants to be close to you for protection so try not to push them away and understand that they feel safer with you around – even if the storm isn’t going to hurt them, they don’t yet understand this clearly.

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