by B Borcyk

Created on: December 20, 2010

Throughout our lives, we are plagued with difficult tasks, many of wish we choose to avoid. When it comes to caring for aging parents, we cannot hide or push the responsibility off on others, although some try. Without guidelines to follow, this time in one’s life could be terribly depressing. The following are a few tried-and-true helpful hints.

-      Communicate – Communication between caregivers, as well as with the parent in question is vital. As much as nobody wishes to discuss the aging process, it is a topic that should not get pushed aside so willingly. Families should always be aware of each other’s wishes when it comes to being unable to make health decisions. Caregivers should be able to voice their needs so if one requires assistance, someone else can step up.

-      Respect the parent’s independence and wishes – The older generation does not wish to be incapacitated. While the person can still walk, talk, and perform most activities of daily living (eating, dressing, toileting, etc.), it is important to allow the person to do so independently. It is also important that while the person is still oriented, the family listens to his or her wishes and obeys them after the person is no longer able to make these wishes known. This cuts down on family conflict and guilt if the decision is straight from the horse’s mouth.

-      Learn the developmental process – Many organizations deal with the developmental process, as well as death. They have information to share regarding the normal aging process, as well as specific information tailored to any health problems the person has. Learning where this person stands will be vital to understanding what will happen in the future. This way, preparations can be made ahead of time, and surprises will be minimal.

-      Be patient – Although not all older adults are confused or disoriented, it can be a major problem for some. Prescription medications, food/drug interactions, infections, and many other factors can cause a person to have cognitive impairments. If the person asks the same question several times in a row, ignore this. Acting irritated with this person will not aide in making the person less confused.

-      Avoid falls – It is becoming common knowledge that older adults can be at high risk for falls. If an older parent falls

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