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Views on premarital sex

by Vilie Farah

Created on: November 29, 2010

According to a worldwide survey carried out by a major condom brand, only 44 percent of the questioned married individuals feel happy with their sex life. About 48 percent of the women who answered survey questions admitted that they fake an orgasm.

The very same survey shows that married couples have sex only 98 times per year. Further, few husbands are aware of the fact that their wives are not climaxing and are thus putting on a show.



These statistics result from the fact that many people remain uncomfortable with discussing sex or exploring their sexuality. As a result, large percentage of all married couples is not enjoying the quality sex they should be.

Sex is an important part of each romantic relationship. And premarital sex plays an important role for marital sexual happiness. Some people turn this claim down as religiously and ethically unacceptable. Yet, the fact is that people who enjoy premarital sex are having better intimate life as married individuals.

~ Sexual exploration ~
Premarital sex allows an individual explore different opportunities with different partners.

Sex is about finding out what you like. The only way to achieve that is through trial and experimentation.

As long as it is carried out in a thoughtful and responsible manner, premarital sex is perfectly acceptable. It provides a person with valuable lessons and information that will make intimacy with the right person even better.

~ Getting to know what you want and like ~
Many people having little experience and unrealistic expectations find sex to be less satisfying than what they have imagined.

Sexual experimentation lets a person decide what works best. In fact, the things that one individual experiences as exciting are seen as repulsive by another.

People fail to connect on sexual level if they have remained inexperienced until marriage. As a result, so many of them are unhappy and puzzled with their sexual experiences. Yet, they put up with it since they know no better.

~ Learning how to please a partner ~
Apart from discovering what is individually stimulating, a person will also find out how to please a partner through sexual experimentation.

Let us face it – sex is a huge part of marital relations. Problematic sex can often lead to a break up. Knowing how to please a partner is of crucial importance in terms of sexual happiness.

~ Sexual compatibility ~
Two people who are a perfect emotional and intellectual match could be entirely sexually incompatible.

Premarital sex is very

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