by Vilie Farah

Created on: November 28, 2010

Some people have mastered the art of making friends. For them, getting acquainted with new people is something exciting and awaited.

Unfortunately, a large number of individuals feel uneasy and uncertain about making friends. What are the most appropriate ways to approach a stranger? What can you talk about? What if the person turns out to be different from expectations?

Making friends is uncomplicated but can be a challenge for some. In order to meet new people and to develop friendly relations, you will need to learn some social interaction basics. Once you master these, you will start enjoying the process of making friends.

~ Where to look for friends? ~
People who share similar interests have better chances of becoming friends. If you are looking for friends, you have to select the right places.

Interest groups and clubs bring together individuals who share the same passions. Chances are that these people will get along well and will soon be developing friendly relations.

The same applies to forums and debate groups. An online friendship is sometimes a good option that can be taken to the offline realm. Virtual friendships are very useful for introverted individuals who are uncomfortable with the first steps of the process.

Classes and courses can also help you meet new people. Any type of social interaction can result in a friendship. Go out and meet new people. You never know what types of opportunities will become available.

~ Overcoming shyness ~
The biggest problem for many people is the shyness and anxiety connected to encounters with unknown people.

It might be difficult to overcome shyness and introversion but as you face your fears, you will discover the right way to overcome them.

Try approaching occasional strangers. Ask for the time or directions. Try holding a general conversation with a person you are unfamiliar with. As you gain experience in such types of interactions, you will gain more confidence.

~ Conversation skills ~
You have made it past the first step. You managed to get acquainted with the person. What you need to do is discover more about each other. Conversation skills are important when it comes to the birth and development of a friendship.

Learn how to talk to people. Knowing how to hold a general, pleasant conversation is very important for any type of social interaction.

Some safe topics you can discuss with a potential friend include hobbies, interests, family, work, pets, music and movie preferences. Encourage the person to tell you more

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