The key to being attractive to women is simple to the point of being cliched.

Every woman loves a confident man. Not to be confused with cocky or arrogant, the confident man exudes sex appeal simply by being so secure in himself that he does not try to be anything other than himself. If a lady happens to find this attractive, fantastic, if not he isn't losing sleep over it.

The minute you stop trying to be attractive to the female population you suddenly become incredibly alluring. No one likes a chaser. No one wants a needy guy. The same is true for men - How many men are turned on by a woman needing constant reassurance, whose every move screams "notice me"?

The best way to attract a woman is to learn to be comfortable in your own skin. Don't compare yourself to others or berate yourself for what you see as shortcomings. No one is perfect and most people are too hung up on their own imperfections to even notice yours.

So please, forget the cheesy lines, leave the ego at the door, stop with the bravado laden swagger and crass conversation. It's so transparent and the only effect it has is to leave the woman in question insulted and wondering what she's done to give out the vibe that she will be impressed by any of this. Be yourself, talk to her like she's your equal and relax! The more at ease you are, the more she will be and that's when you can both start to enjoy yourselves. And the one thing all women will agree on is that a man who she can have fun with and laugh with is very attractive indeed.

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