by Vilie Farah

Created on: October 27, 2010

Many people claim that seduction is an art that few have managed to master. Seduction has never been about open and aggressive sex appeal. This game is much more delicate and requires numerous skills and the use of intuition.

Seducing a man can be an exciting and unique experience. Some women feel uncomfortable about their own selves and skills. The result is that they shy away from the seduction game.

To be seductive, you have to learn how to appreciate and like yourself. When you manage to achieve a degree of confidence and self-awareness, you will be able to start tempting men. A woman who feels sexy will be seen as an appealing one by others.

Reading a manual will do little to improve your seduction skills. Experiment and get to know what the rules of this game are. The more you enjoy it, the better you will become at it.

BODY LANGUAGE
Seduction is about covert gestures and signals. Its delicacy and fine balance make it exciting and very tempting.

Body language is your best asset. Use every bit of skin to temp, tease and attract. A smile, a hand move, lip licking or pushing a lock of hair back can all be seen as exceptionally sexy.

Use your body. Let it speak instead of your mouth. Your eyes can speak and they can be very eloquent. The same applies to your smile. Use these assets to tempt a man and to establish a connection.

CONFIDENCE
If you lack self-confidence, you should refrain from trying to seduce anyone. You have to know who you are in order to step into this field.

Nothing could be sexier than a woman who knows what her value is. Appreciate all of your assets. Be aware of your defects but keep them under control. Your fears and insecurities should never dictate your decisions.

Be a woman who is happy with herself. Inner peace is sexy. Discover it!

TEASE
Remember that seduction is far from aggressive sexual demonstration. Tease and give little hints. Let him use his imagination to fill the gaps.

If you have the option to touch him, do it gently. Use your fingertips to gently caress his hand. Once you do that step back and keep some distance between the two of you. Approach him and quickly move away. Make him desire you strongly.

Men are attracted by hints and the thought of what they could have. Give the man you are flirting with some clues but make sure he is aware of the fact that the best is yet to come.

BE A MYSTERIOUS LADY
We all know that someone in tempting lingerie is much sexier than a fully nude individual. This is so because sexy lingerie reveals some

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