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Cheating husbands ... this a a problem that so many marriages face today. I think we should ask ourselves, "Why did he cheat?". Most women think it is their fault somehow, but the truth of the matter is that the fault lies with the man.

Marriage used to be very sacred. Marriage was precious and not taken for granted. In todays world, marriage is more of a convenience. Couples marry to young or for all the wrong reasons. This can, and has caused dysfunctional families, and the explosion of divorce.

Divorce is easier today than it ever has been in history. It's actually easier than doing your taxes. Divorces are so common place now that couples don't give a second thought to it. It destroys families.

So, if we have no concern for marriage, then why wouldn't cheating be acceptable? Should you forgive him once? Twice? That depends.

You should ask yourself some questions before confronting your husband. Did I see this coming and ignore the signs? Is he going through a personal crisis? How often has he cheated? Do I believe, without question, it will happen again? Do I love him enough to forgive him?

There are many questions to ask yourself if you are in this situation. And there is help to find the answers.

When it comes down to the bottom line, you must ask yourself, "Can this marriage be saved?", and, "Do I want to save this marriage?"

The answers depend on you(the person), your strength, your emotional well-being, your children.

Should he be forgiven? That's your call Darling! Think long and hard, get pass the pain, the anger. Make sound judgments. Go with your heart when, and only when, you have passed the pain and anger. No-one can make this very important decision for you. It is your life, your marriage. Be smart. Get information. Talk to your husband without anger. Seek counseling. Ask God for strength.

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