by Leslie Trotter

Created on: September 21, 2010

No one wants someone claiming them as their one and truly love all so soon in a relationship. In the beginning of each relationship people are just learning about each other and that is very exciting because of the mystery that is yet to be revealed by our potential partners. There is definitely something wrong when a woman feels attached to someone they hardly know much about.

An unsuspecting man may never know the warning signs of a woman who will become obsessed with them, so this article should be able to give them some pointers on detecting an obsessive woman. If on the first date a woman is sizing you up to fit a tuxedo and be the groom at her wedding, she is way over the top and you should avoid amusing her because she just might take you seriously.

If you tell her that you will call her after a date and she calls you as soon as you walk in your house after the date; keeping you on the phone most of the night and she begs for you not to hang up because she feels a strong connection; Houston, you have a problem.

Women who are obsessive becomes jealous easily and if she spotted you at the cafe having lunch with your cousin Susan, then later she throws a brick into your car window, there should be much concern especially if she thinks she's in a relationship with you and she isn't. If you have a girlfriend already, shame on you for cheating on her by dating this weirdo, now she's threatening to harm your girlfriend.

You will receive gifts from her just because she loves you, and there is nothing you can say to her to make her think you don't love her, even if you tell her to get lost. She will try even harder to prove to you how much you really love her. Some obsessed women has the potential of becoming very violent, or stalk you. They might even try to trap you by becoming pregnant, so if you are lame enough to sleep with her, try your very best to use a condom and don't agree to use any she's supplying.

Their obsession with you can cause them to contact your family and closest friends just so that she can be in every area of your life, she might even become obsessed with them as well. Whatever psychotic imbalance she has can not be healthy or safe for you and your loved ones; getting a restraining order is something you should do to protect yourself.

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