by Steve Marshall

Created on: September 13, 2010

Being autonomous relates to assertion in that it is the assertion of being your true self that frees you to be able to self manage your own life, rather than being pushed around, or being pushed into being the someone, who you really are not.

This article will discuss some ways to be assertively your true self, more often.

When we assert who we are, we are loving who we are.

When a cycle ends, it ends. Don't ever push the barrel over the cliff.

The main idea then is to reach into your assertiveness within a balanced way. Don't overdo it so much that it then becomes aggressive.

This means to go through the back door of your own mind's problems. Reach into your heart to find the true assertiveness of a courageous love that is always there for you, at all times. This solves any problems of your not being yourself, because it will eventually resolve for you, exactly who you are.

This takes place for you, as you allow yourself to connect to the love coming to you from God, via your soul, into your life.

Love itself is not assertive either as a tool of the mind, or of your emotions. Love asserts without reasserting in a way that now becomes better understood, but in a much wiser way.

The inner truths lift outwardly past the outer restrictions.

This is ongoing, and it is mainly just love asserting, but not reasserting itself.

This subtle difference is that love asserts its position via attracting you back to it, but it never has to reassert itself at all, or reinsert itself, because its attraction is always enough.

If you can attract the better self of others out of them through love, no other techniques are ever necessary, including assertiveness. Love takes care of all else.

When love becomes lost from your life, it will assert itself and become progressively much stronger around you then, in order to try to draw you back into its fold.

The whole Universe always moves itself to try to find any part of itself that has been lost to itself. The whole of love and of God, will also move towards you to embrace you with love, when you have lost yourself to your outer self, at the expense of your inner self, or your soul.

Living from only love allows a relaxed balance to assert itself inwardly within us.

Assertiveness, though a good enough technique to start us off with, must be finished off with the polish of love. We can never otherwise be fully relaxed, even when asserting ourselves, because perfect relaxation, always takes a perfect loving.

Assertiveness is what you

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