by Olivia Emisar

Created on: September 06, 2010

Men are wonderfully appreciative creatures and, fortunately for women, it does not take much effort to be viewed as sexy.  We have been told that men are visual creatures and enjoy the sexy lingerie, high heels and make-up on the woman they are interested in. 

The fact is that it is not the overdone make-up and the sexy/naughty night gown.  It is not the high heels or that new perfume that makes them go wild over their woman’s sexiness.  It is the promise of physical contact and honest interest their woman displays when he is around. 

The lovely perfume probably makes him sneeze, but the fact that you put it on for him makes him ignore something he can do without.  Men are truly visual creatures and what women view as sexy for men, is just a carte blanche invitation to be close.  This is why men don’t care what type of lingerie a woman is wearing, the fact that she is showing it to him is a green light to take things further.  That is really sexy! 

Suggestions for sexy moments 

Men like to be touched affectionately, reassuringly, and yes, with every intention of turning them on to get the engines roaring from 0 to 60.

Men don’t mind stealing a kiss, but sure appreciate it when the woman surprises them with one for no reason at all. (that is sexy!)

Men like to have playful moments where they can enjoy a few minutes without worrying about bills, schedules and deadlines.  A pillow fight, physically wrestling with him, and giving him a real passionate kiss in the middle of the day, will be considered extremely sexy indeed! 

Making him the center of attention in the middle of the hustle of daily life shows that he did not get lost in the shuffle with the dirty diapers, errands and obligatory social events. 

Making eye contact, winking at him when everyone is busy and stressed can diffuse the situation and change the dynamics to a playful moment.  Any man will say that is sexy! 

Join him in the shower and be playful.  (enough said!)

Drop the “honey do” list and ask him to join you for a cold drink in the backyard or the bedroom.  Relaxation and closeness is very sexy. 

Let him finish a sentence without interrupting; let him express his feelings without passing judgment; treat him with respect; Respect your self and your relationship and he will think he is the luckiest man in the world because he has the sexiest woman in the planet within reach. 

Let him know you have his back by standing up to his critics, (especially if they are blood relations) and he will kiss the ground you walk on.  Empowering your man is very sexy. 

Finally, make the time for just the two of you to spend time dating each other and take turns doing things that each one of you enjoys.  Rediscovering each other's likes and dislikes has the newness and excitement of dating.  Dating is very sexy!

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