by Elaine M. Doxie

Created on: September 03, 2010   Last Updated: September 05, 2010

Once upon a time, children were taught to be seen and not heard.  While we have long since put this theory in the trash bin where it belongs, in some cases, the pendulum has swung too far to the other side where children are no longer taught to respect those around them.  In allowing our children to be disrespectful, we are crippling them for life.  Respect is important in school.  It is important in other people's homes.  It is important in relationships.  It is important in employment.  Let's also not forget that it is important for smooth relations in our own home.

When children are disrespectful in school, this disrupts the class and the learning process for all of the students.  The authority of the teacher must be respected by both you and your children in order for your teaching to be effective.  Teach your children to listen to the teacher and follow the rules of the classroom and the school.  Even if you disagree with some of the rules, don't say anything in front of your children.  Take your complaints to the school district in a respectful manner.

When your child is in someone else's home, they need to learn to respect that person's space.  They should not touch or take things that do not belong to them.  They should listen to and follow the rules of that person's home.  You can show respect yourself by keeping a close watch on your children to make sure they are not doing these things. 

Although nobody really likes to think about the day their children are going to be grown up and in a relationship, we do want them to be successful in a relationship if they are going to be in one.  If we teach them what an important part of a relationship respect is, we are gearing them up for success in their relationships, and a better future for them.  This also applies to friendship.

Obviously, it is important to respect your boss and co-workers.    Respecting them and earning their respect is how you succeed in life.  The person who earns the most respect is the person that is going to be considered first for the promotions, raises, bonuses and all the other perks that go along with being employed.

As for in your own home, a child that respects the rules of the household will be easier to live with for one.  They are also less likely to be involved in drug or alcohol abuse, especially if they know this is a rule in your household.  Respectful children are never violent and rarely problematic in other ways.  Even the chances of teen pregnancy are reduced when they respect you and your rules.

Basically, respect is one of the greatest and most important things we can teach our children.  Never underestimate its importance as it is how our children will succeed in life.

Learn more about this author, Elaine M. Doxie.
Click here to send this author comments or questions.