by Ann Miller

Created on: August 14, 2010

With the recession hitting hard, now is the perfect time to get creative about dating ideas that won't break your own personal bank.  That may seem unromantic, but what could be more romantic than a date that someone has structured just for you, just for your relationship?   Instead of trying to impress with how expensive you can make a date, why not rise to the challenge of creating a really good time without spending lots of cash?  You may surprise yourself with just how much more enjoyable these dates can be.  In many ways it is lazy to think an expensive dinner or a night at the movies or a club is the best way to go. 

Honest communication is important in any relationship, so be upfront about it.  Tell your date that even if money is tight, it doesn’t mean you can’t have fun. 

Here are some ideas for cheap dates you might enjoy. 

Meet in a coffee shop, doesn’t have to be a famous, expensive outlet, pick a family run outlet for cheaper fare and often a more relaxed atmosphere.  Coffee shops attached to bookstores are good place because the staff encourages people to linger.  Don’t try this in fast-food outlet!  Bring paper and pencils with you and challenge each other to write a list of things they like and things they like to do.  From there, you can plan future dates together.  Be prepared to try out different things.

If art, history or literature is on the list of either of you, visit an art exhibition or museum.  Many are free to get in.  Check out local galleries and don’t forget, there are many art and craft groups that hold showings of member’s work.  Check your local newspaper or the library for information.  You can also find information of poetry readings, or book readings from libraries and bookstores.
Pack a lunch.  For a day out, pack up a lunch.  Include all the things your date likes and find a park or a quiet spot to share it.  Look in the local paper or on notice boards to check any events going on, fairs, trade shows, craft fairs and workshops.

For shoppers, meet in a mall.  Agree on a $5 or $10 limit and challenge your date to get the best buy.  This is also fun to do in a flea market or at a garage or car boot sale, especially when you can watch the haggling with good humor.
Take a walk by water.  Water sooths, it creates a romantic atmosphere even in bad weather, just make sure your

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