by Tracy Lynn Smith

Created on: August 04, 2010   Last Updated: August 07, 2010

What women really want in a man can change depending on the type of woman they are, what they want from life and their relationship. There are some main qualities that all women really do want in man. Women want men to be their everything in their life; from their friend to their lover and also need men to be able to take care of them.

A woman wants a loving man. Someone who they can love, but will also return that same love. This is a top quality that everyone wants. Everyone wants to be treated kind and to be loved. Love is a two way road to be successful. One way roads of love end up in disaster. A woman wants a man who will return her love. Having a man whom remembers to show love through their whole life to their woman is very rare and very special.

Caring is very important. It is also being kind and giving equality to the woman for their opinions, feelings, and thoughts. Communication is a large key to making relationships work. Men and women giving equality to each other are just as important and show that they really do care about each other’s feelings. When a woman gets sick, which happens to everyone, it is extra sweet that the man tries to help out instead of telling the woman to get over it and making a mess. This extra kindness and caring makes a man very special and the woman very lucky.

Listening is a great skill. Everyone has something that they want to talk about. From what happened in the day to problems. A man that will take a little time and listen to what kind of day his woman had will make her very happy. Listening works much better when everyone takes turns at listening.

Providing for your family is important. It doesn’t matter if the woman works or not. As long as the man is capable, they should do their best to provide for their woman and their family. There are exceptions to this, such as physical limitations. Just because a man is handicapped doesn’t make him a bad man. However, a perfectly healthy man who is just lazy and doesn’t want to work is wrong.

Being able to be trusted is also a key thing that women want in a man. Lies or stories make a woman jealous, worried, and confused. A woman wants to be able to fully trust her man. Women want the man to be theirs and only theirs, lies usually lead to the man being unfaithful.

Women want a man who will stay true to them and not cheat with other women. Many men cheat, but the best man will never stray. A woman wants to be loved beyond looks; especially after giving up her figure to give birth to children.

Overall a woman wants someone which has some of the same interests as they have. Women want a man to be sweet, honest, caring, and able to show love. A man that is not afraid and is willing to help with housework is also a very large bonus, especially with working women. Women want someone who will treat them not only as a lover but as a friend as well.

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