by M. F. Cunningham

Created on: August 04, 2010

Women often treat finding a mate as a solution to their happiness. Unfortunately, in their quest for that fairly-tale life that they envision they often choose the wrong type of man and often wonder why their new relationship failed.

 It is important for women to take time and give some thought to the types of males that they are choosing.

 Here is a list of the types of men that women should avoid......

Untrustworthy- How many times have you seen women who make excuses for a partner who they can not trust. These type of men lie for the sake of lying, you can not believe anything they say or do. Yet women find themselves becoming involved with this type of male over and over again. Never become involved with someone you can not trust!

Controlling- This type of male can be very dangerous as well. He wants to know your every move and constantly rifles through your cell phone. You wont be able to have any freedom because he inquires about every second of your life. This is not love, it is obsession! This behavior is abnormal steer clear of this type of person.

Insecure/lacks confidence-A guy who does not know what he wants out of life will become an albatross around your neck. You will spend most of your waking hours trying to build up his confidence. Honestly, who has that kind of time? That is not to say that you can not be supportive of your mate. Self-confidence is an attractive trait and you want someone who exudes confidence.

See you as sexual object—These types of men can be flattering at first as he talks about how “hot” you are. After a while that is all he will think you are a “hot bod”. Steer clear of this dude with the fake compliments. After a while it wont be flattering but annoying. It is important that a potential mate see you as a person and not as an object or plaything.

Party Animal—If he likes drinking beer and hanging out at the bar with his buddies, chances are he wont change for you. He wont grown up for you and anyone else, and can't understand what's all the fuss about. This guy lives life on his terms and wont have it any other way.

Finding a mate or partner that is right for you should take time, because this is the person that you are planning to spend the rest of your life with. Be cautious and do not rush into something that you will later look at as regrettable.

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