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I am a 31 year old man and I still don't know how to pick up on a woman. Luckily for me I am somewhat attractive to some women that I can get lucky, say once every two years. For a single man that is just pathetic. I hold on to relationships that I don't even like just so I won't be alone. The scariest thing for me is wandering if I can ever meet someone again. I notice that as I get older, I get uglier and fatter. I do know that anytime I start dating someone new, I just finished losing about 20 pounds. So I'll take that as one step of the process. Now lets figure what else would help me. I think maybe if I start going to specific places, such as a local bar for example, on a regular basis, maybe I can get to know more people and make new girl friends. Wow, so I guess losing weight and being a regular at some places that I would like to go. My history with women has also concluded with the female leaving me for another guy. Which I can understand, because I do let her know that it just isn't working anymore and the only thing worth saving is the sex. On top of that, these are women that initially picked me up and I guess that tells me that they have no problem getting with another man. Though, I always thought that it has to be so easy being a woman. It just seems like they could practically get anyone they want and they know it. Well I think if I can just start knowing a lot more people and hanging out with a lot more girls, then I will stop being shy and will also have the opportunity with hooking up on dates more often. Wish me luck, I definitely need it.

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