by Warren O. Brennan

Created on: July 20, 2010

College can be an excellent few years. However, the initial transition can be difficult. You are in a new place, living away from family, facing academic challenges, and forced to make new friends. Getting settled and into a groove your first week at your new school is key to starting you on a good path.

If you are attending school at a large campus, try and go early to take a look at the campus prior to classes beginning. Bring a copy of your schedule and see where your classes are located. You don’t want to be the lost freshmen on day one.

Additionally, talk to people who have attended the school years prior, if possible. They will be able to give you an idea on the social culture of the university, what professors to avoid, and other things that may not occur to you right away.

The first thing you must do socially is put yourself out there. Really throw yourself into the mix. The advantage you have is very few people will know you. You can reinvent yourself in any way you please. Take the opportunity to introduce yourself to as many as people as possible. Don’t be afraid of the awkward factor, everyone is in the same position and looking to meet new friends. They will appreciate your getting the conversation started.

Next, get in touch with your professors. This will get you more comfortable in the academic environment. Send them an email introducing yourself and speak to them after the first class expressing your interest in the class material. Again, this takes some effort but will pay off in the long run.

You will also want to consider joining a club or extracurricular activity. This is a great way to meet other students, particularly upper class ones that can show you the way around campus. It will additionally give you something to do after class.

Begin attending campus events. Often times there will be movies, concerts, or other events put on by student government or other associations. Again, these are great opportunities to meet people.

Lastly, be safe. Popularity is no excuse to make poor decisions. You need to be responsible with your decisions. Many students make the mistake of following the crowd in the hopes of impressing others and making new friends. Don’t fall into the trap. You will find yourself sanctioned by your school, or worse. Instead, act responsibly, have your fun, and you will be just fine.

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