by Nick Somoski

Created on: July 12, 2010

To most men, having a large member means everything. While a man's girlfriend or wife may kindly insist that there's nothing wrong with a small penis, let's face it - size does matter, and men won't be satisfied unless their penis is large enough. Of course, the question is then posed of how big is big enough, and really, does anyone know? How many inches will it take for a man to be satisfied?

As a man myself, I could hardly care. But it's evident that in the sex-crazed world we live in, having a large penis means a lot more than having a small penis, and men that have the package to brag do just that.

Sadly, men's egos are driven by sex. Everything sex - getting sex, providing sex, the girls involved, how good they looked, how good the guy looks, how big their abs are, how big their pecs are, how big their penis is. The self-esteem of a man skyrockets if they're able to pleasure their girl with a large member, because they know it's their big member that the girl wants.

Apparently, that's so. That's what a lot of men believe. But maybe it's not entirely the men's fault here. Woman probably fuel men's heads to believe that having a bigger penis is better. While we have the girls that say there is absolutely nothing wrong with having an average or below-average penis (you know, the ones with boyfriends that have small penises), we also have the girls (ones with boyfriends that have big penises) that say "Wow, look at that big penis. I crave it" or "I can't believe the amount of pleasure I get from your large penis." While they may think they're making their boyfriends feel good, do they really think this will help them any?

All it does is make them cocky (no pun intended). It makes them feel like they're better than everyone else because they have a larger penis and a lot of other guys do not. Being a guy, I can say that we're actually very emotional, just in a different way. We're very dependent on women telling us things to make us feel good about ourselves. If a woman were to say that my penis is big, the first think I'd think is "You better bet it is. And that's why no one could pleasure you like I do."

Vulgar, sure, but that's the kind of people we are. Our self-esteem is absolutely connected to whether or not we have a larger-than-normal package. We feel good about ourselves if our penis is big. We feel like we can put out like others can't, as if we have something that other men can't offer.

So, maybe women aren't all to blame. Maybe men shouldn't

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