by Lucius Trae

Created on: July 08, 2010   Last Updated: October 25, 2010

Your boyfriend might like long walks on the beach, football games, loud music, or any combination of the above. While there are things that almost all boyfriends will appreciate, it's important to remember that people are individuals. Thoughtful gifts are often those that speak directly to the person; they communicate something that's significant to them. Perhaps you know that every year they hate birthdays? Plan a quiet evening at home, and surprise them later in the week with a post-birthday event for the two of you. In many cases, careful consideration as to who is receiving the gift can lead you outside the box. However, there are plenty of gifts that are always likely to please:

1. Technology:

Most guys enjoy technology, and you can figure out if your boyfriend fits the category. While today's culture includes many women who are well-informed on technological gadgets, choosing something can be intimidating nonetheless. Look at what things your boyfriend already has and determine if there is an upgrade available. Did they enjoy playing a video game that now has a sequel? Have they had a chance to upgrade their iPhone, gaming system, computer monitor, or other device? Many technological gifts have made things easy by creating a single, universally better upgrade. No more "making sure you get the one in the blue package" technology purchasing. Even if they're well upgraded, there are usually plenty of neat things available. Feign ignorance about a technology you see on television; do they seem excited when they tell you about it?

2. Give Him A Perfect Day:

Obviously, you can't give him that magic beer-machine he had a dream about, but you can provide a day he won't forget. It doesn't have to be an entire day, and not all of the things have to be incorporated. You can mix them up in different ways or come up with your own creative ideas. You might start by ensuring his employer he won't be coming into work that day, and late the next morning. Now how this will work will depend on how early you inform the employer and how reasonable they are. Technically, you can't do that, but if your boyfriend complains after what you're going to do - get a new one. If he likes sleeping in, set his alarm clock back. He might wake up out of habit and see the time (can't have that). Greet him with breakfast in bed, perhaps in an interesting outfit, but that's it until later.

You may want to make a nice meal for the evening.Arrange a distraction inside or out. Perhaps have a

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