by John Louie Ramos

Created on: June 23, 2010   Last Updated: July 07, 2010

One of the hardest and most mentally straining part of the dating process is figuring out what the other person is thinking. Moreover, women are harder to figure out than men as they're always hiding their own feelings at the same time dropping mysterious hints that could work either way.

Women are fickle minded and are more of an enigma than men. Thus, the value of reading a woman's mind often plays a crucial role in whether the date or relationship is a success or just a big failure.

More so, here are some hints and tips on how to understand a woman's body language during the dating process.

Eye Contact

Making eye contact with someone during a date implies the idea of genuine interest. Once a woman looks into her date's eyes either on a shy glance or an honest-to-goodness direct look it means that she wants to know more about her date. More often than not, women who continuously make eye contact are trying to assert herself and visualize things in a more serious perspective.

Women are one step ahead of men in terms of entering into serious relationships. Eye contact is a good sign as it is a great way for women to measure the sincerity of her date.

Subconscious Mirroring

Haven't you notice that sometimes couples often look similar; for instance, they do things together or they eventually find themselves enjoying similar hobbies and interest. Thus, that kind of similarity is also very much present in a woman's body language during dates. Our subconscious minds get the best of us. 

Hence, we subconsciously mimic people whom we like and are interested with. This subconscious mirroring is very much related to the emotional and psychological tendencies and chemicals that work within our bodies.

Colossal Clumsiness

A great sign that a woman is interested with you is when she does things different than the way she used to - more often than not, it'll result into nervousness and eventual clumsiness. Maybe she would drop her fork or completely mess up; at any rate those are good signs.

It means that she is experiencing tension and a high degree of anxiety.

Tossing, Stroking and Combing Hairs

The most enigmatic way of sending nonverbal cues used by women to give the idea that she is interested with her date is by tossing, stroking and combing her hair. Furthermore, when women subconsciously play with their hair it means that they are enjoying the company of their dates. It's a sign of playfulness and enjoyment which is a great head start for a deeper more serious relationship.

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