by Harvey Stelman

Created on: June 12, 2010

ME AND WHOMEVER

I’m going to write about me personally, so put the kids to bed and tell your husband/wife to do some shopping. I’ve been fortunate to have a number of love affairs; I’m not talking about one night stands, though they can certainly leave a lasting impression.

To me the excitement of the chase or being chased is enticing, but so is an unexpected moment of passion that leads to a relationship. . For example lets say; your best friend’s sister, someone standing up at a wedding (best wedding ever besides mine) when you are also standing up, a friend's cousin comes to town, etc.

But lets get down to the nitty gritty; we all remember the sex. Of course we remember the things we did together, the places we went to, their personality but we come back to the sex. We may even concentrate on the places we got it on. You probably won’t do it with your wife/husband where you did it with a girlfriend, but you’ll always remember you did it there.

One never forgets if their partner was good at oral sex or fornicating, maybe they weren’t good at all. The excitement of the first anything can be remembered. Who said it isn’t good to live in the past, no matter. The memory of a wonderful moment in ones life is fantastic.

She/he touched me for the first time, I quivered immediately.  You can change the wording to “entered” or “surrounded,” and the memory deepens. If anything was a first for you; how can it slip from your mind?

Many people will say they don’t even remember how many people they’ve been with. I was close friends with a lady, and we frequently talked about sex for years. We even confided in the number of people we had slept with. As a few years passed she was dating and married that man, I hoped her number had not grown by double digits.

We had a sex talk and I found her number had gone down, this is common in women as they have more birthdays. She told me the names of all the guys, and I had only one question.  Why was I so easy to forget? Her answer was; we’ve been such good friends for so long…. Then she smiled and said; do you remember when we…. I knew I couldn’t be forgotten.

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