Have you ever noticed that when you are looking for a girlfriend, you wont find one? Or you will find the wrong one? This is because girls pick up on the fact that you are out looking, and this is not attractive to most woman. They are thinking, and rightly so, that if they show a little interest in you, then you will go for it. So they are thinking "well if its not me its just going to be the next woman he talks to". Therefore they are under the impression that you don't really like them for who they are, your merely just looking for any woman. This is where a lot of men are going wrong. In the past I have really wanted a girlfriend, and I have gone out looking and Ive never found one. On the other hand, when I have been happy in a relationship I have attracted more attention from females then when I'm looking for the attention. It may be a sub conscious thing that you don't even realize your doing, but when your out, and your happy and just getting on with things and having fun, you will be attracting more girls than if you were looking around, looking desperate and miserable because you haven't found anyone.

So I would say that to be more attractive to woman is more of a mental thing than physical. I mean lets face it, you cant really change the way you look too much, obviously dressing how you feel comfortable, hairstyles, and general cleanliness goes without saying, but again, don't dress how you think a girl would like you, dress how you like. Putting on a false look will just attract the wrong woman. You need them to like you for who you are, otherwise you will have to continue to lie whenever you are with this person, and that can not lead to a happy relationship.

So Basically, dress comfortably, look happy, and be confident and you will see the results. I hope this has helped.

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