by Unityoak

Created on: June 03, 2010

Women ask a man why they lie. You'll shortly find out that men lie about why they lie. I have asked several men, the last one I asked really pissed me off. He went on and on about how it is when you first meet someone. Then I asked what about when you’re dealing with someone you know. A woman you know, why do you still lie? He had no answer other than men only do what women allow. I think men lie because all they care about is sex and really don’t think past if they’ll see that woman once they have sex. I’ve had a man lie to my face over and over again after I gave hints that I know he was lying. Do you think he finally told the truth? Hell no, I think men do that on purpose. If they admit we caught them in a lie that means they’ll have to admit that women are not dumb and not crazy. Everyone knows a man who claims a past girlfriend is crazy. But have you looked at how that man treated that woman? More than likely she wasn’t crazy, he was just a lying, cheating bastard.

Men lying is the women's fault. We know their lying and yet we act like they didn’t. We give up the goods without letting them know it wasn’t because of their swagger. It was because we already planned on having sex with them. That’s why I continue to say the key to getting men in line is all up to women. We have got to stop letting them off the hook and rewarding them for their poor behavior. Men only do what women allow. Stop allowing them to lie and still have the good life. If we want a man to be truthful we got to start demanding it. Say a man says he’s got his own business and owns his house, etc, etc. If you plan on dating him seriously verify everything he’s told you before you have sex with him. Just think if women did a little research before we opened our legs. I for one would not have wasted my time with several men. And would be married now, not my current pitiful state of always being a brides maid but never a bride.

Women we also need to tell the truth. Tell these me exactly what we want. If they claim they want everything we want you know that’s a lie. Especially if you say you want to settle down and have a family. NO man wants that, they are lying if they say they do. So do your research and if he keeps acting like he wants to build a life with you, MAKE him marry you or MOVE ON. Peace.

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