by Todd Hicks

Created on: May 23, 2010   Last Updated: September 19, 2010

Are you a lady who is looking for a guy to have a lasting relationship with? Are you and other ladies you know having trouble finding a man who is interested in having a relationship with you? He can let you know you are not in his plans without saying anything. By reading this article, you will learn how to tell that a guy is not interested in you through his body language.

He gives you little or no eye contact. Providing ample eye contact is essential. It is natural to avoid looking at someone’s face long if you do not want to have anything to do with him or her.

He never gives you a warm smile or look that signals a romantic interest. If he is this emotionally cold, you should “run for the hills”.

He never shares a laugh with you and he always has a serious expression on his face when you are around. In his head, he is saying, “You are not worth my time.”

He does not offer to kiss you or accept one from you. Come on. Kissing helps make a relationship strong.

You think not getting a kiss from him is bad? Try not being able to get a hug from him also. If he will not even go for this, you definitely have no chance winning him over.

He displays no interest. No matter what you say or what you do for him, he is either stoical or continues to give you a look of disinterest.

He brushes you off. If you try to touch him, he pulls his body away.

He will not “give you the time of day” and he does all he can to keep his distance from you physically and mentally. Every time he can, he walks away from you. If he cannot do this, he simply will not listen to you.

He shows disdain and a lack of vigor. He wrinkles his nose or frowns and his shoulders sag.

You have learned how guys show their lack of interest with their body language. It is vital to keep this in mind in order to quickly determine if the guy you are interested in wants to be bothered with you. The sooner that you can figure it out, the sooner that you can move on to finding the right guy. I wish you the best of luck.

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