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Created on: May 21, 2010
Do We All Lie About Sex?
Of course we do! We lie about how much we get, how much we want, how we like it, if we like it, its all a lie or at least an exaggeration. Women lie about sex all the time, we wear make up, padded bras, high heels, we nip and tuck to look more attractive all in the aim for sex. Those that say they got breast implants to help themselves with their self esteem are putting a nice veneer on the fact that their self esteem rides on how many men check out their cleavage on a daily basis.
Sex in this puritan nation is considered private, dirty, sacred, and a huge topic for judgment. It’s a private act between two (or more) people, but turn on T.V and that’s all you see, because sex sells…and sells so well. So it’s a lie that’s it’s private, we all want to know about it. It’s a lie that it’s sacred because the average 12 year old has had experience sexually, it’s a lie that’s its dirty, it’s just human nature even dolphins have sex for pleasure! It’s part of evolution people. The only true part of sex is it’s so easy to place judgment. How high or low your “number” is. What you’re into. How you view it, it is love making? Or is it procreation? Or is it a hobby?
Guys in a locker room, girls around glasses of wine, the conversation will always turn to sex. But how honest can you be about it? If you’re a man, you’ve got that great double standard on your side, talk about how much you love it, how much you get it, and remember to always multiple your “number” by three because while girls are called “tramps” for having a high number, you’re called a loser or worse…sentimental if you don’t.
This world runs on sex, the porn industry is a multi billion dollar a year industry and the most profitable and popular industry on the Internet. And no one wants to be honest about it because no one wants to be judged by it. What if you’re into porn? Or fetish? What would people think?!? They would throw away the fact that you’re a successful productive person and reduce you to a pervert. A word that has a few definitions, some of which being to lead astray morally, to turn away from the right course, to lead into mental error or false judgment, to turn to an improper use; misapply. If you like girls in high heels, pornography or a lot of sex what about that is improper or leading you
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