by Carmel Brulez

Created on: May 19, 2010

A husband's behaviour can force a woman to be unfaithful.  Of course, that works the other way around too, and a man might be driven to be unfaithful.  But we are talking abut women who are married being unfaithful right now.

How can a man drive his wife to be unfaithful?  Simple.  He can do any of the following, and a mix of two or more of the following is bound to make it happen...

*  Work very long hours where he hardly spends any time with her and ignores her protests that she would rather he does less over time or earns less and spends more time together.

*   Spend lots of time with friends or with hobbies and invite friends over a lot, so that he spends very little quality time with his wife.

*   Start a lot of arguments.

*    Not listen to how she feels, what she wants or what she thinks.  Or simply pay lip service to it and then let it go in one ear and out the other and carry on exactly the same after, breaking promises.

*   Be boring!  It is important to spend time together but it has to be quality time. Staring at the television or playing with the playstation for hours is not spending time with her.

*   Causing financial problems by over spending or not earning enough to meet commitments.

*    Cheating or flirting with other women.

*     Being violent towards her.

*    Calling her names or being verbally abusive.

*    Gambling, taking drugs or drinking a lot.

*   Making her feel that sex is a chore rather than that you fancy her and love only her.

A woman needs to know her man loves her and respects her and values her.  If she feels she is only there because of habit or because the guy needs someone to clean the house she will lose interest in him and eventually find pleasure with a different man.  Most women get a great deal of pleasure out of feeling loved and being in love, they may even kid themselves they are in love with someone they hardly know just because they love being in love.  It is far better for the husband that he treats her right so that she gets that feeling with him than that she cheats on him.

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