by Simon Wright

Created on: April 25, 2010

Most women wish to have a natural birth but the process of having a baby is not always straightforward and complications can mean that doctors will recommend that a Caesarean section is performed. Despite the fact that c-sections are routine operations that doctors perform every day, they do still constitute major surgery and it’s important that the expectant mum is given full support by her birth partner and/or other family members.

Providing support prior to the operation:

In most cases the decision to perform a c-section will follow on from examinations and scans that have revealed that the baby is either in a breach position or is in some state of distress within the womb. Consent will be required in order for the c-section to be performed and, as the birth partner, your first role is to be there for your wife or girlfriend to help them consider the options and make an informed decision.

It may be a big shock to be told that a c-section is required or recommended and the expectant mum may not be in a great position to consider the options if she is suffering contraction pains and is tired from lack of sleep. Make sure that you are by her side and that you offer support and portray a sense of strength and calmness. Talk with her about what the doctors and midwives have said and ask her what her initial thoughts are on what is being proposed.

It is likely that the hospital will arrange for the performing surgeon to speak to the expectant mum. This is important in providing reassurance about what’s involved with the operation and the doctor should highlight any risks associated with such a procedure. Prior to this meeting, chat with your partner about what questions she might have and then help her to ask these questions when the doctor arrives. Don’t be afraid to ask the doctor whether there are any common questions that couples ask that you haven’t thought of as your brain may be somewhat addled by the drama that has been unfolding in your life!

Providing support during the operation:

Assuming that the expectant mum has signed the consent forms, you will be scheduled for a slot in the operating theatre. There can be quite a long wait before getting a slot, particularly if higher priority emergency cases emerge so try to help your wife to relax as much as possible in the lead up.

When time does come for the operation, you will be asked to change into hospital scrubs and then you will be guided to a waiting area whilst the doctor administers

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