by christina christou

Created on: April 20, 2010

Life can become complicated especially between relationships.  It is easy to blame the other person when you feel hurt or misunderstood.  But there is another way of 'seeing' relationship interactions and even life situations.

The spiritual law of attraction is simple, but not easy to use at first.  It goes against the grain of human nature.  Human nature sometimes still functions on the old testament belief of 'an eye for an eye'. We would much rather notice others actions and keep them separate from ourselves. 

The law of attraction states that whatever action, situation, interaction is presented to you, is something that 'you' have attracted because 'you' need to deal with that particular thing.

For example, if you are arguing with your other half about money, and he is being inflexible in his understanding, instead of thinking,

'Oh he is so difficult and inflexible'

Think, 'oh, so I have attracted this conversation because there is something in me that is inflexible relating to money'

In effect, your partner is reflecting what you are feeling, you have attracted this towards you to explore and release.  To take it one step further, you have projected this feeling in your partner and he reflects it back to you.

This also can be applied to situations, like others  being late for appointments, machinery not working. Your soul will use any means to show you what you need to deal with.

For example, others being late for an appointment with you could be that you are attracting this situation so that you can see what you are late for in your life. Are you always late, too late, not quick enough? The answer may not come straight away, but just shifting your awareness can give you a different perspective on situations.

Life becomes an adventure, instead of a chore. Also, you will start to feel connected to each other and the universe.

So, next time you are having an argument, people are late, the washing machine does not work, think,

'What is it in me that needs exploring and releasing?'

The law of attraction also works with good situations.  For example, if you are feeling good about an aspect of your life, you will attract people, situations that feel good too.

So, look at what you are attracting, and this will show you what you need to do more of, or less of.

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