by Author Name Withheld 193

Created on: April 11, 2010

Broken heart is a trauma that we experience after every bad break up. And we ask ourselves how to make the pain go away. But in the end it feels like whatever we do doesn't work out and the more we try the harder it goes away. We don't even think about the new love because we don't feel capable to love again. So how to make it all go away? How to trust and love someone again?

First thing that you need to realize is that everything happens for a reason. Not every relationship is meant to succeed. You have to know that this was your great love but there is a greater one out there and you just need to get yourself together and find it. You think that you can't trust to anybody else because you feel betrayed. But time goes by and so goes the pain. Take small steps and learn the rules of trust from the beginning.

This experience you've had can also have a good purpose. It should show you that you need to be careful even when you love somebody. The main rule is to give the same quantity of love that you're getting. Love is not easy to control but you need to learn how to pick what's best for you. Love isn't something that happens over night. It takes time to develop and that is time that we can use as our rebound period. It is easier to forget one love if you focus on other. And all you need to do is to make sure that you don't do the same mistakes again.

How to know who is the one for you? The same way you knew before. Only this time you know even better what you expect from someone. You know how you want your relationship to develop. And after you give it a shot you'll find out are you ready to give your love to that person.  You can learn so much about yourself if you just take a chance and get back to the world again.

How to lose fear? Let someone else enter your life and just see how you feel with that person. If you feel like you could share anything with someone than it must be a good sign that you've done a good thing. If you don't feel that this is the right thing for you just end it and find out what you really need. Love makes us do things we are not proud of and it can lead to pain, but the important is to understand the lessons life gives us through love and apply them to find our luck.

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