by Mick Smith

Created on: April 10, 2010   Last Updated: April 16, 2010

Hi Last year in 2009 I noticed a girl staring at me a lot in a lecture at uni. Sometimes when she looks at me, when I look at her, she looks away. Also there was a time when we were all waiting for the lecture, when she came to wait for the lecture, she came and stand next to me, it was obvious that she did it on purpose, because there was plenty of room where to stand to wait for the lecture, but she came and stand next to me.

 Also there was a time where she was in the library, and when she saw me standing outside the library, she came and sat outside right in front of me from a bit of a distance away. I was not able to do anything in 2009, I didn’t have much confidence if she does like me. One thing bout this girl though is, she only appears in my sight when I don’t expect her, when I do expect her, she’s there.

 So in 2010 on one Thursday, when she comes out of the lecture room when I'm waiting to go in for my lecture in the same room, when she goes passed me and go
to some distance from me, when she turns around to the right from far away to go down the escalator, she looked at me for a couple of seconds, she was on her own this time, she did this for another Thursday as well, she was on her own again.

 And on the 3rd Thursday at the same point, she had some friends with her, but she gave me a more powerful deep stare, a stare that was similar to 2009 Then next Tuesday I bumped into her while she was walking around uni, and when I asked if she's got anymore classes today, she said she doesn't, that she's going to see her boyfriend.

 Ok this is where I don't understand, because previous Thursday, which was the 3rd Thursday, she gave me a deeper look, which lasted for a few seconds. Some friends say, she’s testing me to see what my reaction is when she said she has a boyfriend. Does she still like me even though she has a boyfriend? What do u think?

Can you please give me your best opinion and advice, since she’s confusing me?

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