by Tami Erickson

Created on: April 06, 2010   Last Updated: July 20, 2010

Finding love comes easy to some while taking an eternity for others. Finding a good man who is worthy of your love doesn't have to be an unattainable goal. Choosing a man to be your boyfriend, and eventual husband doesn't have to take a lifetime.  You may be gun-shy from past hurts but when that right person crosses your path you will simply know he is the one. Those memories of a cheating boyfriend or husband dim in the light of your new-found love. But how can you be sure that he won't cheat too? Why are some men faithful companions to their girlfriends or wives while others seem to be cheating at every turn? How can you be secure in your relationship today without being afraid that your boyfriend or husband will cheat on you tomorrow? What makes love strong and what is it that makes you suspect him? How can you keep him faithful?

Finding love can take your breath away. Many of us have been there, that place where we just know that we have found our soul mate and this time it's for sure! Its destiny, after all, it's written in the stars and it's within your grasp!

You are confident that this guy is the man you've been waiting for all your life because when love blooms it's a magnificent feeling to experience and that feeling simply can't be wrong! Our heart beats a little faster, butterfly's swirl in our stomach at the mere thought of him and we cherish every moment that we have an opportunity to spend with him. What makes a relationship strong and enduring in an era where the divorce rate is above 50%? How can you be part of the other half of that statistic?

Building a long-lasting enduring relationship in which your boyfriend, who you intend to become your husband, takes time and energy. True love and faithfulness does exist but it won't last unless you feed it and nurture it.

Building and maintaining a faithful, loving relationship with your man doesn't have to be a daunting task.  The secret is to start out slow and build a solid foundation of friendship and trust. Although many of the strongest relationships today are between two people who have been best friends for years, there was a time when two people married after knowing each other for barely a moment. Some marriages were based on love at first site while other marriages were built from a commitment of ‘til death do us part’ regardless of love, or the lack thereof.

Trust, honesty, communication and commitment; these are the key ingredients to a healthy and lengthy relationship

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