by Felicia Manzie

Created on: April 01, 2010

To be honest, there is never a good time to become pregnant, even if it was planned, because there is something that always goes wrong when a woman least expects it. We as women think we know when it is the best time to get pregnant, but we don't. We will get pregnant if the world is about to end, because we think a child will solve everything for the greater good. We will get pregnant to hold on to a relationship or a marriage that is doomed even from the start.

We are reluctant to use our intuition at the time of need. A woman's intuition could tell her deep down that the pregnancy is not the best time, but we cover it up and go with what we call the other voice, knowing full well we should have went with the gift of intuition that God gave us. Sometimes a pregnancy carries unwanted consequences, especially when your partner don't won't a baby and you do. Pregnancy is a wonderful thing if it is shared by two people that are willing to take that step together, or a pregnancy is still a wonderful thing if you are alone and going to do it alone. A child doesn't ask to come here, we just volunteer them into this world without their knowledge.

Getting pregnant should be thought long and hard about, but it isn't, we just take the risk even if it kills us. Bringing a life into this world is not easy at all. It takes a lot out of a woman struggling to bring that baby into this world. Pregnancy is considered to be a life and death situation, oh and most painful too. I can surely say whenever the world end I guarantee you that a woman will be pregnant. I don't know I might be pregnant myself. We do take precautions to prevent pregnancy, but sometimes that does not always hold up in place. If it is meant to be it will happen. A baby always find his or her place in this world. So to be honest, it will never be a right time to bring a baby into the world even if a woman thinks so. Even though it is a debate about bringing a life into this world, it is a great experience. So hands up to a woman who can handle it all.

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