by antlover26

Created on: March 24, 2010

“This world is desolate without friends”

Friends are more than rains in the summer, snows in the autumn, hays in the spring and the sun in the rains; they more than words. They are omnipresent, even in unforeseen circumstances. That is why they become important things in our life; they complete it better and of course, we are nothing without them. Their care and love given us is the golden mean.

Remember that more friends we have, more care and love we get. Here are my tips for making friends:

Be open to someone who takes kindly to you because this is one of the signals that he/she extends a warm welcome to our attendance. Help someone who has difficulty as much as possible if you know his/her problem intuitively. It shows that you care about him. It convinces that you are a good person and have a positive attitude. Nobody is perfect. Everybody has different characteristics, this is what I called by “uniqueness”. Esteem their differences and accept their demerit. Very likely they will do for the same things, or even better. Positive thinking and act to all of people around. Positive thinking and act deliver the positive effects. Initiate the conversation when she/ he is silent and get the interesting topic she/he may be enthusiastic to make it more preoccupied. So, it will not make ennui. Before getting acquainted with someone, coming to know his/her first by asking his characteristics to his crony in order we do not astound when we know his personalities in point of fact. Praise him for his performance and virtues ingenuously. So, he feels that you care of him and he will be deserved. Thereby, he will open heart and recognize you much closer. Forgive and give. Forgive them when they make faults sincerely. Forgiving is a glory, so that we do not have grudge and fury. Afterward, give them much of love and affection to all people around. Never do the things he/she is dislike in front of him because it will make him feel slack and to be reluctant to know you closer.  Show your good attitudes. Do more of intimate communication with him/her, such as send him a short massage, email, or even call him to ask something. Be yourself; do not be lie about something that can appoint your self esteem. It just makes matters worse and disappoints him if he knows one day in the future.

All people are different, but we can unite those differences in one word, it is “FRIEND”

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