by Sabrina Ridge

Created on: March 23, 2010

Everyone has heard horror stories about gated communities, hostels for the aged and nursing homes. It is understandable to accept that most adult children want to be part of the decision making process when a parent has decided, or needs, to move into an environment that provides more support and security.

Before even starting to look into nursing homes or assisted living facilities, there is one major duty an adult child must face. That is accepting that their parent, or parents, still have the right to make decisions about their lifestyle.

Even if the child feels more able, cognitively and physically, to make informed decisions, they should keep in mind at what age they will comfortable to hand over such major decision making to another person.

 There are many aids available through aged care agencies to help with the decision making process and these can be worked through together as a family. It is important that the person considering making the move is as empowered as possible, without being overwhelmed by too much information. This can be achieved by firstly encouraging them to make a list of the aspects important to them in finding new accommodation.

 For some people, remaining in their local area, or close to family, may have a high importance. For others there may be financial constraints that will need to be taken into account. If the person is physically able, it may be important to consider the terrain of the surrounding area to allow for as much independence as possible. If your mother is still mobile, she may want to walk to local shops or access public transport nearby her new home.

 Residents new to aged care may need to consider how important it is to have a private room, or think about whether they would be willing to share a room. Sometimes a move can happen quickly leading to the acceptance of a share room. Your parent might ask the manager if they can be put on a waiting list for a private room at a later date.

 Before anyone accepts accommodation in retirement or aged care housing, it is vital that they have time to look over and consider the contract they will have to enter into. There will be many sections and this may take some time to read. Some people will be willing to leave this up to a family member to do, however it still remains important for them to understand the basics before signing the document. They may even want to consider legal advice before signing.

 The contract will stipulate what sort of

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