by Dossie M Terrell

Created on: March 08, 2010   Last Updated: May 29, 2012

There seems to be a raging in your soul and you can find no way to release it or disavow it, so you strike out at those who are most vulnerable around you. It may be your child; your employee; or someone you feel superior to, it does not matter because your goal is to have someone feel the same hurt or disappointment you are experiencing. When you finally vent your poison, does it make you feel better? Does it make your problems less problematic? Are you able to move on to the next level?

In all probability, you probably responded no to each question. One thing everyone learns as they grow older and, hopefully, wiser is that no one can eliminate their problems by either blaming or demeaning others.  Moreover, when you attempt to destroy others, you are diminished by it whether or not you recognize it.  All humans have a common tenor that despite their often wishing it were not so, it is. It explains why when disaster strikes in far-away lands that people from all over the world feel compelled to help in some way. So rather than launch an attack upon some unsuspecting individual, think about what brought you to your current station in life and use it as a launching point to move forward. In the end, you will not only feel better about yourself for having engaged in this exercise, but you will also move forward with your life in a more positive manner.

Eradicate Angry and Replace it with Expectation

It is easy to blame and be angry. Those emotions often afford a way out of burdensome situations without ever taking responsibility for them. It is important that you conquer them because there will never be growth until you take charge of your emotions.  When you face problems, and everyone has them, the first thing you might do is look backward instead of forward; it is for this reason many problems hang around longer than they have to.  If you find you need to resolve something crucial in your life, may be to get a job or to make more money to support your family, do not hide behind anger and disappointment.  You will discover that with the proper frame of mind, you can overcome the most onerous problems.  To do this, you must start living a life filled with expectation and forward thinking.  If you believe you can, you will. If you believe you have, you will receive.

Develop a Vision

You have probably heard hundreds of times that when you envisage the things you want in life, you make it possible for them

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