by Healthier

Created on: March 05, 2010   Last Updated: March 07, 2010

Does love end?  That questions seems impossible although for many the answer is yes.  Yes love ends.  For those who truly love someone, would say absolutely not.  I would be obliged to ask-did you ever love in the first place? 

Sometime love can be mistaken for a strong liking.  Or an infatuation of some kind.  For example if you marry someone and in let's say a year you fall out of love with them.  Can you honestly say that you loved them?  I would think no love, love was never really there. 

A person would seriously have to consider the meaning of love.  What is love?  Some love is so strong,  a person would give up their own life in behalf of themselves.  Showing just how deep their love is.  Love is everlasting in my opinion.  At least real love,  true love.  It's not based on looks or what you can gain personally.  It's not just a mere feeling,  and then fading away when you don't benefit.  Or when the person upsets you or hurts you.  Love is forgiving.  If you say you love someone or something it should never fade.  This would not mean that you will always be with the person or the something that you love.  For example if two people were married and then divorced would not mean that the love has ended.  Love can still be present within the relationship.  Again if it was real love or true love it should never end. 

When choosing a marriage mate one may question their reasons for marrying.  Is it based on love?  Today the bond of marriage is taking for granted.  Many marry and within a few months divorce.  Was it love?  Should one marry based on love?  Is love important?  I may be old fashion,  but I think yes,  you should marry based on love.  Love is a wonderful thing.  If more people showed love the world would be a better place  It should be true love,  real love and self sacrificing love.  It is rare, but possible.  And if it is, then you will answer the question this way.  No, love is never ending.

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