by Sarah Saint Amour

Created on: March 05, 2010   Last Updated: March 09, 2010

Beyond The Law of Attraction.

As a LOA Coach, I run into many people who have heard of Law of Attraction, but don't really understand it. Simply put, what you think and focus on, you attract- good and bad. But where the real work comes into play is helping people see what they are focusing on which is sometimes not a conscious thing.

When someone comes to me feeling frustrated about life not going the way they want it to, we first look at what they are wanting vs. what they are experiencing in "current reality". I love how Abraham-Hicks says current reality is just the result of past thoughts you have thought. So in logical terms, if you change what you think about (and feel about it), you will receive different results. It's the changing what you think about (and what you're feeling) about that takes work.

Many people say "I want to attract my ideal partner" yet they go around with limiting beliefs about men and women. Identifying those limiting beliefs and clearing them away is truly the key to attracting what you want in your life. Releasing limiting beliefs raises your vibration and moves you closer to what you want. It's all about energy. Everything is energy and offers a vibration.

It's like having an amazing computer (your brain) but the software is a little outdated. If you don't upgrade the software, delete what's not working and install better (serving) software, then the computer will run the same as it did before. There is no judgement needed in deciding what software (beliefs) serve you and which ones don't.

The biggest component of doing this work is coming to terms with moving away from being a victim and holding complete responsibility for EVERYTHING that shows up in your life. Again, no judgement. I simply say "Isn't that interesting that keeps showing up" and look at it loosely. Until you become aware of where your thoughts lie, you will be creating by default instead of on purpose.

Life changes can happen in days, weeks, even minutes when doing this work. It's a wonderful sight to see someone who has been struggling suddenly have the lightbulb go off in their head "I get it!". You truly deserve to understand the power you have in your own life. You deserve the best life has to offer.

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